Rebuilding Your Business and Fear Getting Stuck in the Hustle or Losing Everything Again? Here’s the Complete Blueprint to Avoid It.
A MUST-READ if You Don’t Want to Screw It Up Again
I don’t want to be stuck in another digital space that chains me down under the guise of “consistency.” I’m not consistent because my energy is not.
Let’s get one thing straight: Nobody wants another online course.
A friend of mine recently said to me, “People don’t mind spending $100+ for a nice dinner, but they hesitate to spend another $20 on digital knowledge.” And you know what? She’s right. Nobody wants another f*ing online course or digital gimmick – I’ve already written about that.
So I don’t do boring online courses.
I don’t want to be stuck in another digital space that chains me down under the guise of “consistency.” I’m not consistent. I’m here for building a legacy from my experience—and get paid for my talents.
And let me tell you, when you look at your best work under these terms, that feels amazing.
Legacy trough experience isn't a new concept. People have thrived throughout history, not because of divine intervention or miracles, but because they used their life experiences to teach others. It’s not just about helping family and friends for free—it’s about being paid for the expertise you’ve spent your life honing.
And there's nothing wrong with that. In fact, it’s incredible when you can use your best talents to create wealth and abundance for yourself.
The real issue with most people who want to escape hustle culture is that they’re still sucked into counting likes and living for the dopamine rush of gaining subscribers. This isn’t inherently bad, but if your goal is to build a business that truly connects with people who can benefit from what you have to offer, then your biggest problem is focus.
Forget the likes. Count the cash. And do it while being a nice, honest person. Because if you live for the likes, well, luckily for you, they’ve already created Meta.
Now that I’ve got that out of my system, let me walk you through my freedom-based business building process.
Step 1: Passion Meets Profit
I love sharing my experiences through writing, and I love money. It’s the perfect match—driven by passion and a clear purpose.
Step 2: Creating Real Value
But I don’t just want to build any business. I want a business that delivers real value—like my Magnetic Business. This is the first part of the whole package where I go into detail about my energy-first method and why it’s a game-changer. Trust me, it works.
That’s Your Starting Point: Clarity and Purpose
The biggest reason people fail is that they don’t know how to create a business that works for them. Instead, they chase traditional business models that don’t align with their energy.
Step 3: Content as Your Best Salesperson
Next, each piece of my content acts as my best salesperson. I don’t want the highs and lows of a fluctuating business. I want to write—and use that writing as a tool to sell what I know brings deep value and transformation to people.
It’s simple, and I love it. Let’s go even deeper.
The Secret to Supercharging Your Business
Here’s the kicker: You use energy-first alignment to supercharge the other two parts of a successful business.
Energy alignment is far more effective than jumping straight into tactics—but it’s not the entire picture.
Here’s what this actually means:
For all my entrepreneurs who love numbers, here’s the breakdown:
80% is about getting your energy right and getting your shit together.
18% is about understanding money—how to make it, manage it, and make it work for you.
2% is using the evergreen tools for smart business building.
This, my friend, is how you create real freedom.
The Common Pitfall of Entrepreneurs (Especially Women)
Here’s what I see most entrepreneurs doing—and I’m specifically talking to women here, as we seem to embrace this the most:
They say, “I WANT this.” So, they fight for it. They work harder. They push every day until they get what they want. They tell themselves, “I’m smart, I’ll figure this out.”
What happens next? They join the 5 AM club, hire a coach, follow some cookie-cutter system, and run themselves into the ground.
The results? Inconsistency. At first, it’s all magic—beginner’s luck, I call it—but it doesn’t last. How many times have you seen an entrepreneur create something amazing, only to lose it?
It happened to me.
And let me tell you—the second time around? I didn’t know how to recreate that momentum. Why? Because the fear of losing it all again hit me.
I doubted myself, I questioned if I was cut out for this, and the financial pressure from my old business only made it worse. Not to mention, family dynamics imploded.
Now, let’s talk about Magnetic Business for a second.
Over years, I’ve developed a powerful questionnaire that reveals my biggest self-belief loops, helping you pinpoint what’s holding you back. Turns out, I was excellent at execution, resilience, and had a strong belief in my value and expertise.
But the fact that my first business failed (yes, I had to let it go) left me almost with zero confidence in my marketing, leadership, and managing money.
So, how did I manage to rebuild two businesses from scratch? Simple. I had to get my shit together.
Instead of ignoring my blocks, I faced them head-on and realized something crucial: if I consciously sabotaged myself by avoiding visibility, sales, and financial management, I would never rebuild.
So, what did I do?
I embraced the energy-first mindset. I got financially literate. I set goals with an exit strategy in mind—one where money works for me from Day 1.
Then, I used my experience—the lessons I learned from my failures—and instead of wallowing in pity, I rebuilt.
But this time, I wasn’t just putting together a business; I was creating something that would last—something like a Renaissance palace that could survive without me.
Three years later, here’s what my life looks like (seriously, I needed to write this down so I can remind myself daily how fucking amazing this looks like):
I wake up when I want—no alarm clocks.
I work when inspired (usually mornings in winter, afternoons in summer).
I don’t have a rigid schedule. I communicate with my team when needed.
Deadlines? Not obsessed with them. This actually helps me get projects done faster—check out my website. It was finished in 2 days.
Sometimes, I don’t even know what day of the week it is.
I don’t do boring networking anymore (I said no to a board position last November).
I don’t have routines or “must-dos.”
I don’t stress over time management. I just get things done when they need to be done.
And I don’t feel guilty about being a mom. I can take off a whole day with my daughter, bake cinnamon buns, and enjoy a Christmas-like morning without a care in the world.
I don’t obsess over “balance.” I blend work, play, and relaxation however feels right that day.
I am financially secure.
A final tip for you:
If you’re rebuilding your business, DO NOT dive in until you’ve sorted out your energetic bandwidth. It won’t end well otherwise.
How I Can Help You
I can help in two ways:
Get the questionnaire right here (it’s free if you ask through DM, otherwise $20 on my website—just drop your email if you're not subscribed to my Substack or simply say "Hi," and I’ll send it to you). *free for Members of Magnetic Business
Start rebalancing your energy so you can rebuild on solid ground, creating the freedom you desire. I guide you to do that in Magic Business, step-by-step.
Let’s get to work and make some magic.
Love this post!
It describes where I'm at right now.
Recently launched a podcast and had loose plans on what we would transmit.
Then other, different ideas started flowing in.
I've learned to act spontaneously and intuitively. It feels like that is where true alignment and energy resides.
Imagine a world where everyone operated in this natural, organic way🥰🥰
I must have looked over the questionnaire some where. Is there a link for members?